"I love you forever so so so much baby"
"can't wait to see you again! my darling"
"I love you more than you think I do, I love you for who you are, not what you look like, what you say, but what you are."
"I can't survive another day without you, I really can't. Day after day I miss you more and more, I'll still love you no matter what, forever."...
only after abt 2-3 months of a relationship. I don't understand at all.
these were real phrases that people actually said. (obviously i won't write who it was). And although I sympathise a lot with the pain they go through, after a break up, I don't understand that she "can't survive another day."
Maybe I'm being too literal and thoughtless. Perhaps it was what she really felt at the moment (if so, I don't understand). Perhaps her hurt was so deep that she used metaphorical language to express it, albeit sounding a little dramatic, but let's not judge people's hurt. (that, I understand.) although.. a skeptical voice in me proclaims "how do you know someone for who they are, when it's only been 2 months? and how can you love someone for who they are if you don't know WHO they are? note : 2 months is hardly enough time to know a person in and out.
Perhaps I'm being too judgemental. I'm a teenager as well, and I too have known puppy love, crushes, and being crushed. I too have known what a blow it is to one's pride to be broken up with, or to be left for someone else. (although, interestingly, i have never been stood up for a date.)
But..what I really really don't understand..are the mushy mushy posts! True, that the first days of love are always heavenly, no fuss, everything is perfect, blissful, halcyon. I have often smiled to myself at the beginnings of a relationship, feeling that the birds sang sweeter, the grass was greener and everything in the world was lovely.
But surely...that isn't enough to be love?
and even less, "love forever".
I do not judge. They could be really in love, or it could seem like love to them. Either way, it comes from the heart.
but i still don't really understand.
Till today, I have not said "I will love you forever." Am I the only one?
